So what are some steps to take in order to heal the wound(s) that bring on low self-worth?
- Reflect on what might have taken place in the beginning to cause that wound.
- Recognize the lies that came from your reaction to the experience(s), and that they are not based on reality.
- Replace the lies with truths from God’s Word. This alone will not necessarily fix the problem but will aid in renewing the mind.
- Request a miracle of God’s healing grace.
I have been able to do some of the steps but not all. I know what caused the hurt in the beginning, but I could not seem to take responsibility for believing lies in regards to it. It was easier to put blame on someone else. Now I recognize this, I can move ahead to the future with confidence. I know God loves me–I have read it in His word many times over. Now I am praying for a miracle of His grace.
Feeling discouraged, I went back and perused the recent devotions I had read.
Humility
One was about always wanting to be right. I have struggled with this and realize that this issue, along with being prideful, can indicate a lack of self-worth.
Surrender
Another talked about trying to change a habit and it sometimes being impossible outside of absolute surrender. Then God steps in to do the rest. I know this whole self-worth thing needs to be addressed with surrender. That is where God’s healing grace comes in.